One of the most important things in parenting is your own attitude to it. Do you like it, do you feel scared about it or are you thoroughly enjoying it?
Trust yourself
Everyone has their own ideas about parenting and sometimes it’s easy to become confused or to feel not good enough. Listen to other people’s ideas (this is how we all learn) but do what feels right for you and your children. Trust your own judgement.
Value yourself
You are doing an important job. Be proud of the effort you have put in through the day, no matter how small the tasks. When talking to friends about parenting, don’t moan and groan, because this won’t change things—try new approaches. Never forget how important parenting is.
Look after yourself
Remember you are a person as well as a parent. Be careful not to expect too much of yourself and of others. Enjoy your own special talents. Praise yourself for simple things. Don’t dwell on mistakes (mistakes are for learning from, not for making you feel bad). Try to find things to look forward to.
Parenting is forever, so make the foundation solid.
As a parent you are the most influential person in your child’s life.
Don’t waste time and energy feeling guilty—change what you are doing. (I love this !!)
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